Love is to accept

There is a newly married couple. They live happily every single day. 1 month after that, the wife come after the husband and say:

W: my dear, I heard there is a way to strengthen our marriage. here how it works. We should prepare and list down every single thing that we don't like from each other, discuss about that and see how we can change and improve on it.

H: Yes, sure my love.

They decided to sleep in different room at that night. The day after that, they sit in dining room right before having their breakfast.

W: I will start with mine, (bla bla bla,, she started to read all the long notes that she prepared) suddenly she stopped and look at the husband. her husband started to tears...

W: are you ok my dear?, should i stop reading?

H: No, go ahead my love.

(the wife continued her reading until finish)

W: now is your turn

H: I was trying to think of your imperfection yesterday. But i couldn't think of any thus i leave this paper in blank.. You are just perfect for me, lovely with the way you are. and I don't want to change a single thing from you..

This is life, we often face this situation where we always try to change someone that we love to be the way we want him/her to be. And for me, if we really love them, we should be able to accept they way they are. cause we love them whatever they are.

"because to love.. is to accept"..